FROM STUCK TO SECURE
Stuck in the same painful patterns?
Get clear on why it happens, feel more secure and confident, and finally create the healthy relationship you’ve been craving
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The Shift Method:
A No-BS Approach to Healing
Reveal
Remove
Rebuild
Understand why you act the way
you do, uncover the insecurities behind your patterns, and get clear on different attachment styles.
Heal deep insecurities, break unhealthy patterns, and let go of limiting beliefs using Attachment Theory, NLP, somatic work, and esoteric wisdom.
Rebuild your confidence and security, empower yourself,
and attract the healthy, lasting connection you’re meant for.
About Me
Talk therapy is never enough.
When I was only talking about the problem, I was just creating more of what didn’t work. It was only when I started focusing on rewiring my patterns and taking action that everything changed.
I spent 20% of my time healing the past and 80% building healthier behaviors for the future, and because of that, I’m now in a healthy relationship I’m proud of which is exactly what I teach.
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it" Rumi
Let that quote sink in
Relationships used to my greatest source of pain.
I kept ending up with the wrong people, always questioning myself, overthinking everything, and wondering why things just didn’t click. I knew I had a lot to give, but somehow I’d go for people who either couldn’t see it or used it against me, and then push away the ones who actually appreciated me.
For the longest time, I thought it was me. But once I found out about attachment theory, everything changed. The big realization for me was that I wasn’t broken—I didn’t need to be fixed. But I did have unhealthy patterns and behaviors that were causing my relationships to fail. Once I understood what was really going on, things started shifting. I stopped falling into the same traps and began attracting the healthy, secure connections I wanted.
Now, I’m in a relationship where we’ve got trust, communication, and respect. We work through challenges without the fear, the second-guessing, or the constant wondering if things will fall apart. This is what healthy relationships can look like when you start to understand yourself and the patterns at play.
"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." – Carl Jung
What Clients Say
About Dean Blankfield
"I Feel Free"
Thank you sooooooo much Dean.
​I really cannot begin to thank you enough! I actually feel so liberated and free and an incredible sense of relief.
Hayley Robertson
"Simply Amazing"
Dean is a straight up inspiration. Prior to meeting Dean I was struggling to building deep, authentic relationships. After working with Dean I now have the clarity and courage to show up and be vulnerable which allowed me to finally find the connection I was seeking. Dean you are simply amazing, all praise to you.
Jana Alexis
"Life Changing"
Without Dean I would never have stepped up. I'm so grateful that you were there when you were. Your presence helped change my life.
Anna Sky
"The Soul Trainer"
I've been blessed to work with Dean, he has completely change my life. I finally feel understood and understand myself. Your wisdom helped me find a partner I feel safe with.
Jack Alman
Work With Dean
Introductory 1:1 Call
Rewire: Become Secure Course
1:1 Coaching Experience
Solve a relationship issue
Uncover the root of your relationship struggles with this 60-minute coaching call. Whether you're anxiously attached, avoidant, or somewhere in between, this call will give you clarity and a clear path to solving your relationship challenges
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Using attachment theory, NLP, and esoteric wisdom, you’ll heal the past, build confidence, and attract healthy, lasting relationships. Each module will guide you step by step to shift your patterns and create the love you deserve
6-Week Coaching with Dean
In this 6-week 1:1 coaching experience, I’ll use all the tools I’ve got to help you break old patterns, feel secure, and create healthy relationships. This program is tailored specifically to your unique situation.